We Own Our Choices, Good and Bad
In 1985 and again in 1986
Evelyn Adams won the New Jersey
lottery. Her total winnings were $5.4
million. Evelyn (who admits to having a
gambling problem) blew through both wins and now lives in a trailer. She sounds like a soul mate for William Post
who won $16.2 million in the Pennsylvania
lottery in 1988 and within one year had lost it all and was $1 million in
debt. He now lives on social security
and food stamps.
Ken Proxmire of Michigan
won $1 million and five years later was in bankruptcy. Janite Lee (Missouri ) won $18 million so it took her
eight years to end up in the same boat.
William Hurt and Charles Riddle ($3 million and $1 million,
respectively) both ended up not only broke, but selling cocaine. At least Post and Proxmire tried investing in
family businesses; Hurt and Riddle decided that starting a curb side addiction
kiosk was their enterprise of choice.
Suzanne Mullins won $4.2 million in 1993 and is now
deeply in debt. She borrowed money,
using her winnings as collateral, then took a lump sum payment and stopped
paying her debts. She, of course, blames
circumstances. In truth, they all blame,
“circumstances.” No one, evidently, is
actually to blame for being given a windfall in the millions and blowing it on
high living, arrogance and stupidity.
[Damn, why am I thinking of Congress!]
The unhappy truth is that 90% of lottery winners are
broke, in debt and back to work or on the dole just five years after their big
win. Stupid is as stupid does. The same goes for ignorance, impulsivity and
weak will.
While
all of us want to be rich and thin with no effort on our part, most of us have
a more realistic look at the world.
There are some things I most certainly will never own. Jaguar’s are the only car that will make me
turn my head, but they are too expensive and need too much maintenance. Kobe beef is
just a steak, and a slab of beef from Kansas
City tastes spectacular, plus the jazz is better. Finally, without meaning to give anyone out
there an, “Emperor’s New Clothes” moment, if you spend more than $60 on a purse
(just a place to hold your money prior to spending it) God is telling you that
you have too much money or too little sense.
This
leads me to the current health care debacle.
The Little Prince’s minions are currently trying to sweet talk this sour
pickle. His burqa-wearing toadies (Sibelius and any
woman MSNBC calls a journalist—pardon my mirth at that—come immediately to
mind) are telling us that people made bad choices with their health care, but
now the government is making good choices for them, and charging them
accordingly.
Some
people do make bad choices. You can not
legislate against them. If you believe
you can, walk down to the local shopping mall and observe what some people are
wearing.
People
buy what they want. They make
choices. Usually the choices are made
for good reasons: practicality, economics, a balance of positives and
negatives. Sometimes they are made for
terrible reasons. But each person owns
that choice! In my world, Americans get
to reap the success of their good choices which will make them confident. They will also have to pay the penalty for
their bad choices, which will make them cautious. A cautious, confident citizenry sounds like a
pretty good America
to me.
Trust
people, not government and keep the faith.
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