Thanksgiving is a Feminine Holiday
I have a Thanksgiving morning ritual. Up before dawn, I make my coffee (Minnesotan’s don’t do much before coffee), clean the turkey, sauté the giblets and start chopping up the onion and celery for the dressing. While they are cooking, I carry my coffee cup to the door, and step out on the cold, silent porch. I count the subdued lights filtered through the curtains of every kitchen window. I know that each small beacon represents a woman starting the hours of work that is the Thanksgiving feast. This is a day designed to remind each of us that no matter what budgeting, what careful use of leftovers, what creativity in bargain cuts and coupons it takes, our families will be fed. And on this day of Thanksgiving, there will be food in abundance. Everyone has a favorite holiday. Mine has always— always —been Thanksgiving. As a child it meant the best food, unremitting talk, play with my sisters and boardgames played, sitting ...